Why do people who answer do this?

yes you do have every right to come here and voice your questions, concerns, and opinion and shouldn't be told to shut up I am a parent of 4 kids and wouldn't do that to anyone here espically if I felt that in anyway my answer or advice may help a young person out in any way it's not you or your question that is the problem but think of it this way the ones who tell you to quiet down have the problem they respond like that because more than likely you have hit a big nerve and they know that there kids may be thinking the same exact thing about them and they can only hope and pray that it's not being voiced on here they are afraid instead of reaching out to help